It is no big secret that I am both a fan of food and talking to new people and so it should come as no big surprise that my favorite moments on the Camino came around a dinner table.
Throughout the Camino there are many options for places to stay. Almost every village or town had at least two hostels to choose from. Knowing what I know now, I would tell anyone and everyone who asks for my advice to stay at places that offer a communal meal. Whether you are an introvert or extrovert these communal meals can be very valuable, enjoyable and delicious.
The communal meals were often done at smaller hostels, where we would all gather together to have a meal instead of going to a restaurant by ourselves or with people we have already met. These meals forced you to sit down, take a load off and get to know some of your fellow pilgrims.
So, other than the obvious, why would I enjoy these meals so much? Well, it was a chance to enjoy a home-cooked meal (most of the time), but also a time for us to forget about the struggles of walking, tell stories and laugh together. It never failed that, when I had a communal meal, more laughs and fun happened than just about any other times.
On the Camino, but also life in general, we need fun and laughter. These communal meals not only filled our bellies with some incredible food, but also our hearts with people.
When every day looks practically the same having a meal with laughter and new people can be incredibly beneficial. Laughter has been proven to help with mental health as well as boosting the immune system and releasing endorphines. Each day comes with similar struggles; the blisters, aches, pains and monotony of it all can take their toll on most people. Ending the day with people who understand what you are going through and letting loose a little bit, might just save your Camino, but it definitely will make it more memorable.
Some of my favorite memories of my Camino will be the communal meals at Oasis Trails hostel with one of the best vegetarian dishes I’ve ever had, or the meal at Refugio de Peregrinos Acacio y Orietta where our host cooked a delicious meal with a ridiculous amount of food and the Benedictine Monastary in Sahagun with some pasta cooked by some Italian pilgrims. Oh and who can forget the giant Paella in Hontana at Albergue Juan de Yepes?
We laughed, we shared, we opened up to complete strangers, and we were all better because of it. If you get a chance to do a communal meal on your Camino I recommend you do so, whole-heartedly. In fact, why wait for the Camino? Find some people and invite them to your house for a communal meal of your own.